Dear Ooph Readers:
We have recently entered the dating phase in my house. I have a both a teenage son and daughter. My daughter will be a junior this fall and my son will be a sophomore. They have a boyfriend/girlfriend and have had them over several times. I recently walked downstairs and found my son and his girlfriend watching television (in the main room downstairs) under a blanket and there was definitely some scrambling going on as I entered the room. I resisted the urge to yell, “HAND CHECK,” and went about my business, but it left me uneasy. I need your suggestions. What are your rules when a significant other comes over to visit your teen?
Not Wanting To Be A Grandma Yet